I think lately lots of people forget why they married in the 1st place...i am saying this sbb few of close people around me are getting married soon....3 of them...and let i put it this way...all of them are facing big issues...and i dont know why...i always end up being the listener...no complain...i just being there to listen...coz sumtime i think they will found solution...but need peole to listen for them to wine about it...
One day...bila one of them dok story mory morning glory...tetiba question...sbb the session are normally like i am the listener only...but that day quite different...I pause quite long...put thing into perspective...for me its quite simple....do not made judgement based on emotion only..be rational...i know its not easy at this point of relationship.....personally i think the most important question here is are both of the party remember why they are getting married in the 1st place....are the objectives of both parties the same???.....
The typical answer would be...i love him/her....i just smile...i just question them...are your partner will be able to be a good husband/wife, father/mother to ur child, being able to adapt to your family and friends and vice versa....are getting married to him/her gonna make you a better person???...a better Abb' towards Him????....
Yes love is important...but towards to certain extend....its just not enough...rasa cinta and sayang semua datang Dari-nya....remember that all we have now are just 'pinjaman' from him...he can take and give when eva he likes....
Ya i know i am not at your position right now...but still being a lister to 3 different type of people and gender...and having the experince of number of people that already married....issues always arised in relationship....kalu sebelum kawin dah tak tahan the battle...cam na tu???...coz believe me after kawin lagi banyak ujian....dgn setan yg makin sakit hati sbb terbentuknya sebuah keluargayg halal and berlandaskan agama Islam....lagi la byk ujian yg akan dtg....
What i can do now...pry for all these people happiness...
And please betulkan niat and objective masing2 bila nak mula melangkah ke alam baru ni....
Please love him/her sbb Allah....kalu dia tak reti appreciate you now...igtla all you do is because your seeking His blessing...jgn mengharap pd benda yg tak hakiki...
Jgn jadi org2 kat barat...as world are too twisted smpai wujudnya dating site utk married couple..apakah???....its get me sick reading it....http://uk.lifestyle.yahoo.com/why-i-use-extra-marital-affairs-website-to-spice-up-my-love-life.html......ni semua jadi sbb people forget what are the main objective they getting married in the first place....and i pry all who already married....please remember the objective as simple as that.
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